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Streetwise,
2007
We left
stunned and silent, each buried in thought. I found myself wondering whether
what we had done might change the life of even one of those boys sufficiently
to stop him ending his days as we had just witnessed. I prayed that it would.
In Summer 2004,
when Father Peter Clucas visited
‘Streetwise’, a project for homeless boys outside Durban where volunteers from
the Oblate Youth Service (OYS) were working, he couldn’t help but notice the
awful conditions — no proper lighting, sewerage system, or bathing and shower
facilities.
On his return,
he recruited Padraig McIntyre, a member of the OYS who works for his father’s
construction company, to go on a fact-finding mission, to determine what, if
anything, could be done to help.
When Padraig
returned to Ireland,
he was like a man possessed. He immediately set about recruiting local
tradesmen, and launched a massive fundraising effort in Birr. The plan was to
fly out to South Africa
in November 2005 to completely renovate the shelter’s shower block, re-tile the
kitchen area, and provide lighting throughout the building. We would have two
weeks to complete this daunting task.
Life for many
children in South Africa’s
vast townships is, to say the least, bleak. Homes are made of whatever they can
get their hands on, from sheets of corrugated iron to packing cases and odds
and ends of timber. There is no such thing as running water or plumbing, and
large families live together in houses the size of a small bedroom. HIV/Aids is
a blight on these communities.
It is hardly
surprising then, that so many children find their way onto the streets. From
talking to the boys in Streetwise, it became clear that neglect, abuse and
betrayal had been part of their short lives. Some had been kicked out because
their families could no longer afford to feed them. Some ran away to escape
abuse at the hands of frustrated parents. Some had been abducted, sexually
abused, and abandoned, with no idea of where they were or how to get home.
For many
though, escape to the streets was not an escape. Boys as young as 8 or 9 living
on the streets were unable to fend for themselves and were regularly sexually
abused. Most were beaten daily; almost all sniffed glue to mask constant hunger
pains.
Streetwise
outreach workers spend their days on the streets, talking to the boys, feeding
them, trying to protect them from predators, and encouraging them to come to a
rehabilitation centre. The Centre is located in Marianhill, outside Durban, in a building
that was formerly a mill, built around 1900. It is home to 30-40 boys, ranging
in age from 10 to 15. Where circumstances at home are reasonable, social
workers try to reunite boys with their families.
Streetwise
guarantees the boys hot food, education and a bed at night. Perhaps more
importantly, they enjoy something like family life with lots of brothers, and
social workers to whom they affectionately refer as ‘Auntie’.
By western
standards their living accommodation was awful. The light was already beginning
to fade when our team arrived in late afternoon, but we couldn’t wait to get
started. After a quick look around, we pitched in, digging up floors in
preparation for the next morning. There was a sense of urgency, as we realised
just how much there was to do.
Next morning,
we were up at the crack of dawn, eager to get started. The boys were up before
us and treated us to an impromptu concert of traditional African music as the
project got underway.
Work continued
at a fever pitch for the rest of the first week. Initial shyness over, the boys
insisted on helping. They padded over rubble and sharp broken tiles in their
bare feet, carrying heavy blocks, pushing wheelbarrows that even I would have
struggled with, and shovelling sand into the cement mixer. They painted,
brushed, and held things when we ran out of hands.
We could all
sense that they were proud to be able to help, and grateful that somebody was
doing something just for them. A strong bond developed between the kids and the
grownups, although that didn’t keep them out of mischief! For children who had
been through so much, they were certainly fun-loving.
The work was
hard, and the sweltering heat made it even harder. Through the efforts of
Father Peter and Sister Helena (who insisted on bringing down meals from her
convent several times over the fortnight), we were well fed. Rest was another
matter. Work usually continued until the early hours, and we didn’t so much go
to bed as pass out on top of our bunks.
An Ireland vs. South Africa soccer match on the
Saturday, our day off, was supposed to be a ‘friendly’ as the burgers cooked,
but those kids took no prisoners! Within five minutes we were down 3-0. Through
the efforts of Danny and Fabi, on loan from Germany, we managed to keep things
to a ‘respectable’ 8-1 defeat.
Renovations
were ahead of schedule. While the plaster dried, we painted the hall where the
kids spent most of their time; the gas hob was repaired; sewers were unblocked;
the roof was waterproofed. Every-body pitched in, and when we saw something
that needed fixing, it was fixed.
By the end of
the second week, the shelter was unrecognisable. The shower area was tiled and
painted, and the boys could now have showers under hot water. The kitchen was
also newly tiled and painted; toilets flushed; the hall was freshly painted in
bright colours. The place was brightly lit, no longer the gloomy, drab place of
two weeks earlier.
We felt we had
achieved something worthwhile. It may have been a drop in the ocean, but to the
Streetwise kids, it was a big deal. Every day, they drew us pictures, wrote us
cards, painstakingly crafted detailed replica cars from wire and drinks cans.
They had nothing, but whatever they had they wanted to give us. It was a truly
humbling experience.
On the last
day, some of us took the afternoon off to see other projects in Durban supported by the
Oblate Youth Service. The children in a crèche, also run by Streetwise, were
adorable and delighted to see us. They all wanted to get their photos taken.
The Sukuma
Wenze Aids Clinic, however, was a shock. We knew that many of the boys in
Streetwise were HIV Positive and would almost certainly contract the disease in
the future, but here was the stark reality of what Aids did to people.
We walked
through ward after ward of human skeletons, all genuinely pleased to see us.
Those who had the energy to do so, sat up, shook our hands and chatted. The
others tried to smile or wink.
The most
beautiful baby I have ever seen was lying in a cot in the hallway. One of the
nurses told us that the child’s mother was dying in the next room. The baby
wouldn’t last much longer. He was losing his eyesight and hearing, and Aids
sores were beginning to break out on his delicate features.
We left Sukuma
Wenze stunned and silent, each buried in thought. I found myself wondering
whether what we had done at Streetwise — not so much the building work, rather
what we had done with the kids — might change the life of even one of those
boys sufficiently to stop him ending his days as we had just witnessed.
I prayed that it would.
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